Perfectionism:

For so many, the concept of being perfect consumes us. Perfect hair, perfect complexion, perfect body, perfect grades, it all seems so important.

I am a perfectionist. For me, this means that everything in my life must be controlled. I cannot handle sudden changes in my schedule and everything must be planned out in advance. Procrastinating homework or chores is absolutely out of the question. Sometimes this drives the people in my life absolutely insane, but it's uncontrollable.

Throughout all of middle school I had no life outside of school. I would wake up, go to my classes, go to sports practice, and do my homework until I went to bed. I had no social life and spent little time with family.

Recently, I began reassessing my life. As I embark on my college search, it has become more and more apparent that grades aren't everything. Of course they are important, but they don't completely guarantee your acceptance. Colleges look for how well rounded you are. Do you participate  sports or extracurriculars? Do you do community service?

The point is, you have to look ahead in your life. After high school and after college, you will find a job and a house. Maybe you will even raise a family. If you spent your entire childhood preparing for tests and college, you will have never had the chance to make any meaningful relationships. You will be lost without any idea on how to navigate reality!

The fact is, perfect is impossible. My mom always uses the phrase "it is what it is." Personally, I hate it, but for all of the perfectionists out there, remember, "it is what you make it." Don't spend your entire life stressing the little things!

"Life is too short to wake up with regrets. So love the people who treat you right. Forget about those who don't. Believe everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would most likely be worth it."
~Paulo Coelho